NRGH. DON'T GET ME STARTED. I don't want to argue with someone who might've just made an off-the-cuff remark and not realize how offensive it is to be told that one should be PROUD to give up one's identity and assume another simply because it was traditional, because historically a daughter getting married meant she was becoming her husband's property rather than her father's.
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Date: 2008-06-06 10:53 pm (UTC)